Over the past 20 years of helping families with their pets’ transitions, I have found that every family, pet, and situation is unique. One size does NOT fit all. It is my sincere goal to make this process all that you would like it to be. Although I have techniques and procedures that work well for many situations, I always appreciate it when families share with me their goals, wishes, and desires for the process. Unless you let me know otherwise, my approach is to try to be as unobtrusive as possible, completing the necessary medical portions of the procedure without undue distraction from your ability to say goodbye to your pet. In addition, we are making every effort to maintain personal safety and social distance for everyone involved during this challenging time. Please be sure to review the COVID Modifications page for up to the minute details.
Outlined below are some things to expect from a home visit euthanasia. We are very sensitive to and supportive of varying traditional, cultural, spiritual, and emotional needs. So, if you have anything special that you would like to do or have happen surrounding the procedure, just let us know so that we can schedule our visit with you appropriately. If you have any other questions, special desires, or need any help whatsoever, please do not hesitate to ask.
Once you book your appointment, I will send you some important paperwork that you will need to review and complete, so that you don't need to worry about that at the time of the appointment and we can minimize contact. Consider silencing your phone (though please maintain the ability for us to contact you prior to our arrival). Plan to have other family members and pets in the house say goodbye if they will not be present. If you have arranged to have a friend or other family members be with you, it is a good idea to keep them informed of what is going on so they can be prepared to help you and be with you in these final moments. If there is a disagreement among family members regarding any aspect of the procedure, please try to resolve this ahead of time, as pets can sense discord and it may make them uncomfortable during this time.
Since the medications used may sometimes make your pet nauseated, it is best if you don't give a large amount of food within a few hours of the appointment, but a small special treat is perfectly alright. If possible, it may also be helpful to take your pet for a bathroom break within 1-2 hours of the appointment. Find a quiet place where you and your pet will feel most comfortable for the procedure. Feel free to play some special music and/or surround your pet with favorite photos, poems, artwork, etc. If you have a cat or small dog, the procedure can often be done with your pet in your lap. Since pets no longer have the ability to control their bladder or bowels after passing, voiding may occur. We will bring disposable pads, if you don't already have something. Reassure your pet that they will be all right and let them know that you love them. Some people find it best to explain to them what is going on - that they will be given a shot so they can have an easy transition to end their pain and suffering. Some like to tell their pets that they have done a good job in this life and that their friends will be waiting to welcome them home. Other people like to have some sort of farewell ceremony. Whatever you choose to do, please know that it's OK and perfectly normal to be upset, cry, or sob.
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